Eating And Enemas For Clean Anal Sex
Want to give anal sex a try, but don't know how to avoid a mess? After getting to know your rear parts a little better, you might feel comfortable enough to engage in anal sex with a partner. Anyone who wants to feel confident in managing their own HIV sexual health. The Speed Bump is an anal sex position that I can almost guarantee that you've never tried before.
The best way for anal sex is for the bottom to use a femidom, coated with non-irritating water-based lubricant and insert that into the asshole with a little round (non-tearing) dildo. When having anal sex, the penis has to pass through these two sphincters. Because the anus and vagina are fairly close together, your man can simply aim a little lower for anal sex.
Thorough cleansing prior to the sexual encounter will take your worries away, and proper anal hygiene strategies including gloves and lubricant will make the experience more enjoyable for both you and your partner. I feel, if we do clean the bowels with water either using an enema or water pipe to feel it up to empty what ever is inside.
Despite anal sex being depicted in popular television shows like Girls, How to Get Away with Murder, and The Mindy Project, only about one-third of young men and women have ever had anal sex with an opposite-sex partner, according to the National Survey of Family Growth Notably, this proportion has increased steadily — over 3% from when the survey was first given in 2002.
Some guys also think it's okay to have condomless anal sex if they're the insertive (topâ€) partner. However, if there's ever occasion to try out lube for the first time, it's when you try anal—and then it should be used every time you have anal. Most people who have attempted or done anal sex would tell you that it's the starting point that hurts the most.
Some guys prefer to prepare for anal play by douching (rinsing out your rectum with tepid water). For extra measure, you can cleanse the anus with a gentle soap in the shower. The best tops may prefer a clean hole, but most of them know that sometimes the body behaves outside of one's control — even after an hour of cleaning.
So forget the harsh scents and chemicals — before sex, simply clean the outside of the anus well in the shower or bath with plain water or a very gentle soap. When you are used to having a finger up your rectum, and the muscles of your sphincter are fairly loosened up, you can push your finger further up the rectum, into an opening just beyond the sphincter.
Having anal sex without ensuring your back door is clean after a bowel movement, can lead to some problems, because unlike the vagina, the anal cavity is not self cleaning. While maintaining anal hygiene is preparation for anal sex important, people tend to be too fastidious when it comes to cleaning up before anal intercourse.
You do NOT have to do this step, but some people find using an enema puts their mind at ease and makes them feel extra prepared. Douching with a shower attachment gets me a more thorough clean, typically faster than with an enema. But while PrEP has the potential to lower HIV transmission rates among the people who can get access to the costly medication, rates for other STIs like chlamydia and gonorrhea and syphilis are soaring among gay men.
For more advice and tips about sex between men visit If you're in the Gauteng area, get in touch with OUT in Hatfield, Petoria for free HIV testing and access to PEP medication, lube and traditional and female†condoms. Make sure you have lots of lube on hand when experimenting with anal play — even if you're using smaller implements, like toys or fingers.